1. He’s shady and secretive.
  2. He’s sexist and condescending.
  3. He didn’t want to introduce her to his family. Very very suspicious for a Latino man who takes so much pride in family dynamics. 4.He promised his family money, but knows he can’t work.
  4. I fully understand Spanish and his tone of voice is whinny as heck.
  5. TLC Translation doesn’t do his bullshit phrases justice, he’s an absolute prick.
  6. His face permanently looks like this 😒
  7. He mocks Ashley’s clear effort to speak Spanish, and it shows his lack of respect and appreciation for her. He reacts and talks back like a little child.
  8. His demand for a new phone was so strange.
  9. He hid big news from his mother and ignored her knowing she’d worry.

If he’s not just acting or following an instructed narrative/role I hope Ashley finds someone better. 🚮

  • Charly9902@alien.topB
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    1 year ago

    He is no catch, that is true.

    But I am a little tired of seeing these nagging spouses running to a therapist because their man child from the developing world isn’t latin prince they had in their head.

    “Look at what I have to put up with!! I want to speak to the manager of relationships!”

    He is not what you thought, break up. Stop wasting time and energy on a man that does not want to change.

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      1 year ago

      I get it, but also I don’t blame them for at least trying therapy first, after investing so much into the relationships. I feel like it’s one of those things where it’s only hard to leave when you’re actually in that situation yourself. That said, these men are garbage and the women should definitely leave.