Watching the scene of them waking up in the morning was so uncomfortable, because it’s so common- not just among the cast members on this show, but also in real life. Someone isn’t in the mood for physical intimacy, the other partner sees they are pulling away, so rather than respecting their boundaries, they force themselves closer by pulling their bodies next to them, begging for kisses, etc. If she wanted it, she would not be pulling away, so stop. No matter what their sex life was before, people have any number of reasons for needing more personal space and that shouldn’t matter. It’s so disrespectful and shows that he values his wants above hers (also- see Nikki, Jasmine last season, Rob, Statler…)
While I believe that nobody should force themselves on anyone, I think when you’re fiancé, who you’ve boned plenty of times, is coming to your country to MARRY you, you would have some expectation of physical affection from the get go. No, I would probably not want to have sex after a long flight without showering and getting some sleep but a hug, cuddle, kiss, absolutely yes. If you act that disgusted and repelled by the person you claim you want to spend your life with, something is pretty fucked up. And I apply this to all the couples that go through this. You can’t possibly be committing to someone for life if you don’t even want to share a bed with them. Then why get married???