“I only slept with you before him. You realize, right? So yes, it’s a big deal for me to sleep with somebody else who’s not my husband, so I had to keep a connection with him.” Make it make sense. That’s her rationale??? And we call (rightfully) Aseulo a bit dense?
Agreed, abuse is more than physical - this is class Mental Abuse. She deserves so much better then being treated like some jump off.
True. That said, she allegedly agreed to participate in the Last Resort in a good faith effort to save her marriage. I could have forgiven her for simply unblocking the guy. But blatantly having a booty call with the dick on the side while attending couples therapy is other level and just wrong. Full stop. And what does that say about the character of the guy?
you do realize that throughout the process of therapy sometimes a client unpacks/learns something about themselves and their framework that changes their outlook and approach, and that this can actually be healthy and good for all parties? they’re regularly seeing therapists at this retreat ordeal; it’s not like therapists are like oh when you first came here you said you want xyz what happened to saving your marriage no matter what. Unless you go to very specific and often religious therapists/counselors, the goal of therapy is to have the client feel like they’re informed and strong enough to make their own decisions. this is her decision. as for the flying him in part, whatever, that’s total TLC pageantry.
Jeez! the Kalani apologists and enablers are out in full force. Do you really think any therapist thinks is it’s ok or healthy to dial dick to a group therapy session… ? It seems like divorce (how about say after 1 or 2 times cheating?!) would’ve been a better look than calling the Dicksmith over for a dicking and leaving the kids with sister. Takes a whole lot of mental gymnastics for either of these morons to be correct. They should’ve focused on the therapy