“I only slept with you before him. You realize, right? So yes, it’s a big deal for me to sleep with somebody else who’s not my husband, so I had to keep a connection with him.” Make it make sense. That’s her rationale??? And we call (rightfully) Aseulo a bit dense?
Ok. These comments bashing Kalani are HORRIFIC, DISGUSTING, DISTASTEFUL, and extremely MISOGYNISTIC!!!
If anyone can’t see how hard she tried over 7 years to keep her marriage together, that’s fine. I don’t care if no one agrees with me.
My issue isn’t only Asuelo’s gross behavior and betrayals but for some of you calling her fat, ugly, lazy, blaming her for the demise of their marriage, and insinuating that the shit he did online wasn’t “cheating!” I hope no one has to go through the hurtful shit Kalani has had to go through. If anyone has ever had a cheating spouse/partner who you’ve been in a long-term relationship with… you should be more compassionate and understanding!
She was doing everything she could to receive love from her husband. Continued to forgive him for his infidelities time & time again in the hopes he would change & recognize what he had at home.
Only when she stepped out did he get a very small taste of how she has felt in the marriage.
Agreed. It’s unbelievable the rampant misogyny in so many of these comments about Kalani. Especially when you consider that Asuelu has admitted that the demise of their marriage is all of his fault. He said “I know everything that’s happened, it’s all my fault. But it’s hard for me to listen to. And I can’t do anything.” Kalani even thanked him for the effort he put in with the kids at the retreat and said that she hoped that it would last. This is a man who has done the bare minimum as a husband and a father. He admitted to cheating multiple times including when she was pregnant. He was even called a sex addict. Yet, this sub hurls vile insults about women. I had to stop viewing it. I imagine it’s a place where people tell their deepest hatred for women especially women of color who are overweight. Her body and the fact she is a woman seems to be the crux of why she is hated. The man admitted to everything she has said he’s done to her!