wanda had no grounds for her rose colored glasses speech. yes, bojack was doing better than he typically is for most of their relationship, and diane’s presence was detrimental to him at the time. but bojack himself warned wanda something like this would happen. he laid out his red flags the day they decided to move in together. for once, he was honest about where he was at and pretty much asked her to have realistic expectations. it’s on her if she kept her rose colored glasses on after that.

and she did, because she’s selfish. she’s shown time and time again to entirely ignore others, even her boyfriend, when they’re saying things she doesn’t want to hear. again, not saying bojack’s blameless here. or that wanda’s a “bad person”. she was just as immature and selfish in that relationship as bojack was, and her ignoring his flaws wasn’t on him this time. he was not responsible for the dysfunction of others.