They said early on in this season that she lived in India for a year before deciding to move there permanently to be with TJ. Did people not see where she said that the things she chose for the apartment construction were not what she picked out before she left? Why is everyone saying she should have researched the culture? I’m pretty sure living there for a year can equal to doing some research on the internet.
TJ withheld a lot of stuff when she asked about her duties though
I agree with you, the people saying she should have done her research are guilty of not doing their OWN research into seeing how badly her husband and his family lied to and manipulated her in order to get her to marry him!