Here is my take on their relationship.
Yara needs to leave Jovi. Most posts I see are in agreement, but I’ve seen a couple in argument of married men being able to go to strip clubs.
If that’s your cup of tea, sure, let your man go to a strip club. But here’s the thing, Yara isn’t okay with it. I wouldn’t be either, to be quite honest. Like myself, Yara is an Eastern European woman who grew up with probably the same values and similar culture to me. From my point of view, my husband lying to me and going to strip clubs (and especially messaging strippers) would be grounds for divorce.
In this last episode it’s so clear that he’s destroyed her self confidence, where she cries about not knowing what to do to make herself look better or more desirable to him. He is a disrespectful piece of shit, telling her to shut up and move on from it. Sigh, I wish Yara knew how beautiful and worthy she is of love and respect from a partner. I also don’t want to hear from the people making comments about her getting work done, because it doesn’t fit anywhere in this argument and the overall point that SHE DESERVES BETTER!! Jovi will never change. He has a beautiful, kind woman and a beautiful daughter, and he continues to get a joyride at strip clubs. Grow up Jovi.
Honestly, Americans have a thing with strip clubs. Its embedded in masculine culture. Being able to see titties for the last time because muh freedom, like marriage is a life sentence. Its the wrong way to view marriage.
She has been and will always be way out of his league. Who cares about all her cosmetic work, she is actually really smart and caring on top of her external looks. He’s a basic Chad type and sadly standard of so many guys his age.
Totally, if my partner did this to me I would 100% consider it cheating. I hope she can do what she needs to do to feel happy.
I don’t see any evidence that he’s not attracted to her. For some men, strip clubs are like watching a fantasy woman. The slow crawl, the seductive moves around the pole. It’s not something most women are likely to be doing at home, even if they feel very sexy and do a striptease or something. Other guys look at porn, and some don’t do either. I think for most women, these things make us feel like we aren’t enough. But unless these guys try to talk you into things or can’t perform without it, it really isn’t about us. I’m not saying people can’t develop an addiction where it’s all they think about, and that’s definitely unacceptable. All I’m saying is it isn’t a reflection about the women in their lives.