She doesn’t want to work on your farm and she doesn’t want to get up early. If that’s your condition to live there, they need to know that. But geeez stop being so controlling and horrible. Maybe Brandon doesn’t want your stupid farm. Let him be his own adult!!!
My husband and I moved in together prior to marriage (25/27) to a different town and his ultra catholic Italian family almost disowned him. Now, 18 years later, all his cousins have done this plus moved out of state so i always tell them You’re Welcome!