Feels bad??? From someone who went through this exact bs and i mean almost fucking identical ( accused of having a crush on my sister, my babymom accused my female cousins ((yup more then one)) of trying to sleep with me, signing for the army and while at meps we get in a argument so she calls my fucking recruiter and tells them i hit her before she left and that shes going to the police guess what wasnt able to sign. Put hands on me on front of our daughter numerous times even attacked my mom because she was holding her granddaughter, etc etc i can go all day) i WHOLE HEARTED think she deserves the absolutely shittiest version of anything she does. These type of people dont want help so they’ll never get it.
Narcissistic behavior doesnt go away by itself, they are the type that live by the motto “if i even feel like i dont have full control over you, i will do anything in my power to ruin your life.” How can someone say i need help, when they dont see anything wrong. I hope Brendan mom told him to get his rights situated before the baby even comes. I bet $100 the second Brendan finally has had enough, she will go straight to the cops and lie her ass off just to …. In their mind “get pay back”
It was rough but im more happy then ever knowing i got completely out, still breathing & my daughter knows the truth without my ever bashing her mom in front of her.
Thank you. I wish i could give some advice to Brendan and show him how get back all his confidence and self worth but if he didn’t listen to his mom, it essentially becomes “i guess we let him learn his lesson.”
I truly hope a miracle happens. he just snaps out of it and take off like Holly. Of course he still has to take care of his child but dont have to be together
She said in the live of them arguing that he pushed her and seemed to be suggesting he beats her up. It sounded like what happened was, she was mad about him playing on the PS5 all the time and was about to throw it. He tried to stop her and when he took it back, she got pushed onto the bed. I don’t think he actually smacks her around - pushing isn’t acceptable either. I think it happened accidentally in the fight over the PS5. She tried to suggest he does it all the time …
And thats all we need to know. So much proof that she provokes & then victimizes herself by creating some bogus narrative like Brendan just does things like a possessed man. I dont think there is a single episode where she didnt lie.
My personal experience taught me there is always 2 sides but i also learned how to spot a unhinged individual with nothing but bad intent because i was married to one lol. Unless she has proof especially being used to always being around camera so should be easy to gather if the case, i Dont believe a single thing that comes out her mouth.
I see the same like you said and I said in another post once you had to deal with a person like this the signs are so clear you can spot it miles away… That’s why I know how this story is going to end but for Bandan he fucked himself because he can’t leave or pay for a annulment
She lied to him about no divorce in Philipines. The husband must agree to the divorce if the wife requests it. He needs to speak with a divorce and immigration lawyer to know his legal rights.
Man the stories we could tell each other… I already know the stuff you had to deal with… I went with the same… got accused of having sex with a person who was getting married in a few months… and when I refused to be intimate that’s when she thinks I blew this girl’s back out… she never saw herself and the way she acted was the issue… her fav terms was gaslighting and how I misunderstood things… and I caused her to be this way. I was scared at first but I finally told her in the kitchen one day I don’t want to be married to you anymore… She went around saying I was the one who filed… I didn’t even file the papers but if you go to the court website you can see she filed it… But as you know that’s not what they tell others.
Feels bad??? From someone who went through this exact bs and i mean almost fucking identical ( accused of having a crush on my sister, my babymom accused my female cousins ((yup more then one)) of trying to sleep with me, signing for the army and while at meps we get in a argument so she calls my fucking recruiter and tells them i hit her before she left and that shes going to the police guess what wasnt able to sign. Put hands on me on front of our daughter numerous times even attacked my mom because she was holding her granddaughter, etc etc i can go all day) i WHOLE HEARTED think she deserves the absolutely shittiest version of anything she does. These type of people dont want help so they’ll never get it.
Narcissistic behavior doesnt go away by itself, they are the type that live by the motto “if i even feel like i dont have full control over you, i will do anything in my power to ruin your life.” How can someone say i need help, when they dont see anything wrong. I hope Brendan mom told him to get his rights situated before the baby even comes. I bet $100 the second Brendan finally has had enough, she will go straight to the cops and lie her ass off just to …. In their mind “get pay back”
Sorry you went through so much 😢 I hope you and your daughter are better now much love
It was rough but im more happy then ever knowing i got completely out, still breathing & my daughter knows the truth without my ever bashing her mom in front of her.
Karma hooked me up 10 fold
It takes a lot of courage and strength to get out of such harsh situation but Im so happy it all worked out in the end 🩷
Thank you. I wish i could give some advice to Brendan and show him how get back all his confidence and self worth but if he didn’t listen to his mom, it essentially becomes “i guess we let him learn his lesson.”
I truly hope a miracle happens. he just snaps out of it and take off like Holly. Of course he still has to take care of his child but dont have to be together
She said in the live of them arguing that he pushed her and seemed to be suggesting he beats her up. It sounded like what happened was, she was mad about him playing on the PS5 all the time and was about to throw it. He tried to stop her and when he took it back, she got pushed onto the bed. I don’t think he actually smacks her around - pushing isn’t acceptable either. I think it happened accidentally in the fight over the PS5. She tried to suggest he does it all the time …
And thats all we need to know. So much proof that she provokes & then victimizes herself by creating some bogus narrative like Brendan just does things like a possessed man. I dont think there is a single episode where she didnt lie.
My personal experience taught me there is always 2 sides but i also learned how to spot a unhinged individual with nothing but bad intent because i was married to one lol. Unless she has proof especially being used to always being around camera so should be easy to gather if the case, i Dont believe a single thing that comes out her mouth.
I see the same like you said and I said in another post once you had to deal with a person like this the signs are so clear you can spot it miles away… That’s why I know how this story is going to end but for Bandan he fucked himself because he can’t leave or pay for a annulment
She lied to him about no divorce in Philipines. The husband must agree to the divorce if the wife requests it. He needs to speak with a divorce and immigration lawyer to know his legal rights.
I would of think he would of did his research before he went
Man the stories we could tell each other… I already know the stuff you had to deal with… I went with the same… got accused of having sex with a person who was getting married in a few months… and when I refused to be intimate that’s when she thinks I blew this girl’s back out… she never saw herself and the way she acted was the issue… her fav terms was gaslighting and how I misunderstood things… and I caused her to be this way. I was scared at first but I finally told her in the kitchen one day I don’t want to be married to you anymore… She went around saying I was the one who filed… I didn’t even file the papers but if you go to the court website you can see she filed it… But as you know that’s not what they tell others.