As a child I was groomed by a man in my village and I see a lot of similarities between the way bj and my groomer acted. Do you guys think bojack intended to do something with penny for what ever reason and groomed her? ( reminds her of Charlotte at an early age/ makes it feel like he’s back in his youth?) or was it an opportunity taken impulsively?

  • DaveTheDolphin@alien.topB
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    1 year ago

    I don’t consider what BoJack to have done to be considered grooming (and it honestly irks me when people always refer to it as such)

    BoJack intended to go after Charlotte, and eventually the situation turned out to be a sitcom family thing. And as we know, BoJack has sought after that kind of relationship. And as we know from Kelsey’s offhand statement, BoJack isn’t mentally matured as some 50-something. He’s emotionally stunted. And so he tries to be the cool guy. The cool uncle or other. And at the end of the night, he pushes Penny away. And only after he is rejected by Charlotte does he break apart and weakly say no again. To BoJack, he did what was necessary by saying no, and so anything subsequent is not his fault since Penny chose to follow him in. (But of course we know that he should have been more resolute as an adult and firmly rejected any other advances)

    Grooming implies intent. It doesn’t happen just because of an age gap. BoJack didn’t go to New Mexico for Penny, he went for Charlotte. BoJack stayed because he redeveloped his connection to Charlotte and then a New one with her family. He was having a good time. A complete differnce from how his life was going in LA at that time. But once that good time ended, he fell back on old habits, he gave up on any sense of responsibility