Why I think he is emotionally abusive:

  1. He doesn’t translate everything as he should and only translates in a manner that suits his situation and needs.

  2. Omits essential information all the time.

  3. Right before the wedding he decides to break up because she confided in her parents. But it’s okay when he does the same and turns everyone against her. Who runs to their mommy after there’s been a fight with a partner and talks shit about them to their entire family?

4.He always has to have the upper hand: Threatens to leave Kimberly or asks her to leave in every fight, Whenever he is asked to make a compromise - “Am I your servant?” “I’m not your servant” wth does that even mean?

  1. In effect he has entirely isolated her from his family and is trying to isolate her from her own family too.

  2. Straight up lied about the family situation and “wifely duties”.

  3. No safe space for Kimberly to go to, no one to confide in

Controlling someone in that manner and stripping away their identity bit by bit is absolutely not okay. I say this not because Kimberly is expected to make compromises, but because she is being expected to keep quiet about things that bother her and change the way she thinks. The situation is classic 101 guide in how to break someone’s spirit and make them complacent.

    • AggressiveFeckless@alien.topBEnglish
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      1 year ago

      Haha that’s not editing. TJ may have issues but Kimberly is an off the rails narcissist lunatic. You can’t CGI edit in a 3yr old’s tantrum.

      • payasoingenioso@alien.topBEnglish
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        1 year ago

        But you can heavily stage them.

        As this show is heavily staged.

        🙄🙄😪

        And it is comforting to see Kim during the wedding, generally smiling and very much respectful during the long ceremony with family.

        Even when she recently advised TJ to stop lying about things like family duties, it was said with respectful consideration.

        As in, maybe she was only a brat for the cameras.

        MAYBE. 🙄🙄😪

        • AggressiveFeckless@alien.topBEnglish
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          1 year ago

          Like I said, TJ mis translates, misleads and is an asshole. And I agree 90day stages almost everything. But there is zero excuse for Kim’s behavior. All of you saying it’s ok to scream like a spoiled child as an adult are being ridiculous and none of you would.

          People downvoting me pointing out absolutely absurd adult behavior crack me up.