I understand that there are aspects of culture that needed explaining but the real question is, did she make a proactive effort instead of relying all the time?

  • DrShrimpPuertp-Rico@alien.topB
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    11 months ago

    I am on her side on this one. TJ should have sat her down and explained- in detail- what was going to happen. Should she have researched herself? Probably. She was taking an oath of marriage in another county. I get wanting to understand what you’re agreeing to in a county where there is a language barrier

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      11 months ago

      100% agree. People are confusing their dislike of her personality with everything about her. This is equally her wedding day as it is TJs, but it’s 100% his culture. She agreed to it, but one can’t google this and get a straight answer. And this behavior in TJ is showing frequently, that he’s not fully explaining things to Kim. For example, it showed him saying I waited til Kim came here to tell her what is expected of a traditional Indian wife. His poor communication is getting Kim in a lot of trouble with the family and social media. I am not a big Kim fan, but I think she’s being railroaded and it’s not fair to her. We can’t ask questions we don’t know what to ask. TJ and his family should have considered Kim more on this day.