I understand that there are aspects of culture that needed explaining but the real question is, did she make a proactive effort instead of relying all the time?

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    I don’t think anyone really thinks it’s strange, just not the best way to approach coming into a new family complaining and unable to enjoy the day.

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      It’s kind of hard to enjoy what should be the happiest day of your life when no one around you is telling you what’s happening and pretty much just doing things to you all day. People act like she’s just entitled and stuck up when really she doesn’t speak the language, and just has to sit there and smile during hours of ceremony

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        1 year ago

        I don’t feel pity for her. Glad someone does. We have access to a vast amount of information on how Indian cultures marry, and girl decided reading tarot and her intuition was best.