I know it’s been talked about already, but based on this meeting with his mother, the pictures, and so on, it seems as though Nikki really did some emotional damage by hiding who she really was and the effect it had on him. The look on the mom’s face when she talked about the stress he went through when he came back was super telling. I fully support the community, but I do think Nikki should have told him from the jump. He was just a young kid and it seems as though this relationship really messed with his head. It’s really sad.
I don’t know he could ever speak to her again after what she did. How do you not think hiding something this huge, would be a complete relationship killer? You didn’t give him a chance to be ok with it because you decided FOR him what he was going to be doing. How dare anyone put another person in that position. Having no idea where his thoughts and values stood in line with that and completely catfishing him to the worst degree……how does he not feel completely violated?