I know it’s been talked about already, but based on this meeting with his mother, the pictures, and so on, it seems as though Nikki really did some emotional damage by hiding who she really was and the effect it had on him. The look on the mom’s face when she talked about the stress he went through when he came back was super telling. I fully support the community, but I do think Nikki should have told him from the jump. He was just a young kid and it seems as though this relationship really messed with his head. It’s really sad.

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    10 months ago

    Of course she should have told him from the jump but it it much safer for her to have told him in the US than Moldova. That being said, weaponizing the truth like that is waaaaay fucked up.

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    10 months ago

    I’m a firm believer in informed consent- for all parties involved. Not telling him about her identity removed his ability to give informed consent.

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    10 months ago

    What she did by hiding it from him was full on sexual assault.

    I wish everyone would stop talking about her looks and focus on the fact that she is a disgusting, selfish human being.

    I hope to God someone calls her out like never before at the Tell All.

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    She hid she was a man before. People been murdered for same. She made him be something he wasn’t choosing with knowledge. It prolly really did a number on his psyche and trust. To have come around and got family and friends be cool is wildly tje action showing real care. So hopefully they can be happy. No one can hide thise truths and be intimate with another. It’s deceitful and wrong.

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    10 months ago

    My first thought was “who changes their partner’s name because they don’t like it!?”. And it went downhill from there. She is just a Barbie version of Jasmin, but with a job. Always voicing how she feels, never caring how he feels, just all about her, all the time. She is really selfish and I hope Igor finds some peace.

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    10 months ago

    She looks like a fool, a cartoon character. Igor should press charges for what Nikki did to him. He should continue Taking money from her until she actually leaves. She keeps threatening to leave, but she enjoys the camera too much to get off the 90 Day gravy train.

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    10 months ago

    To me he seems disgusted by her. Sometimes when he goes to kiss her, you can see him visibly cringe

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    10 months ago

    He has every right to charge her with rape for not originally telling him about her transition. You are also 100% correct about the emotional damage it can do to a kid especially in a place as xenophobic as Russia.

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    10 months ago

    You don’t really support trans people if you believe in compulsory disclosure and you think lack of it is damaging—rather than the social baggage being damaging