I think once she saw how Clayton really lives, she got the ick.
You’ve been dating for 2+ years, suddenly when she lands, no sex in a month since she’s got there? Something seems very off about that. It’s even weirder that she acts like it’s not a big deal?
To make things worse, she mentions that she can “find another boyfriend”??
She doesn’t seem motivated into this relationship anymore.
I don’t understand the supposed charm of the mother living in the closet, it gives codependency issues. No woman in their right mind would think that’s a totally normal environment to explore a relationship in.