I think once she saw how Clayton really lives, she got the ick.
You’ve been dating for 2+ years, suddenly when she lands, no sex in a month since she’s got there? Something seems very off about that. It’s even weirder that she acts like it’s not a big deal?
To make things worse, she mentions that she can “find another boyfriend”??
She doesn’t seem motivated into this relationship anymore.
I would have lost interest immediately after seeing he has done nothing to prepare for her to move in. The place is a pig sty and a mother in the closet. I’d be turned off too.