Does anyone else think it is so odd that on 90DF the couples will have serious conversations about private things such as finances, family plans, etc. in front of their friends and family? And the friends and family partake!?
Like for example, last night with Miguel and Ashley. Why is it her friends business how Miguel and Ashley handle their finances in the future as a married couple!?
I know these are likely production fuelled conversations for the drama, but damn it’s so awkward to me. I’d never sit down with my friends/family and start delving into the intimate personal details of my relationship especially after they’ve just met my partner.
I’ve had similar conversations with my mom. She used to complain to me about my stepdad when he was alive, and I complain about my husband to her. It’s a safe place for us because we know the other won’t say anything to anyone. I discuss my disabled BIL living with us, the frustrations that go along with that, our finances, buying a home, babies, etc.