It happened with Kalani and Asuelu. It was mentioned to Danielle when Yohan wanted to move to the U.S. Now, it’s Manuel demanding it from Ashley.
I understand that it’s a cultural thing, but why do parents want to put this kind of stress on their children? I feel like it’s a tradition that’s been passed down and since they did it for their parents, it is just expected. Even just a grace period to help them get on their feet before they start sending $200 or $300 a month could alleviate the stress.
I’m from Canada and it’s extremely financially hard here, I couldn’t imagine sending money to anyone every month. I don’t know exactly how it is in the U.S., but I would think $300 is still a lot for anyone to send monthly. Not to mention, these people only have one source of income since the person coming can’t legally work until they get their green card. I know that it’s really a lack of communication on their end, but it really seems that the family is demanding as well, like it is incredibly toxic. Is this a normal thing or is it just exaggerated for T.V.?
I don’t think for one moment she didn’t know that he would need this. I mean he has kids there. If he wasn’t sending money to them everyone would say he was a dead beat. Life is a lot harder there and he was essentially the man of the family and oldest so a lot of responsibility falls on him. It will not stop in the future he is here and he will make sure they do not want for things. This will be the new normal. If she wants to be with him she is going to have to accept it. On the most basic level he is providing for his family. He isn’t doing anything wrong or hurting anyone. Once he starts working it will again be his job.
She actually admitted that she was aware that this would be a monthly expense going forward. I’m surprised she didn’t ask how much that expense would be. $300/month is a lot of money to some people and a fairly insignificant amount to others. I have no clue what her monthly income is though.
Does she even have a job? If I were him I would’ve picked someone else! She doesn’t seem financially stable.