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Cake day: October 17th, 2023

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  • If she didn’t want to do it then find an American man. She knew he wouldn’t be able to work for a period of time when came here. If they are going to get married for real this is something you do for your partner. I mean what if she had kids and went to stay with him and said we need to send money to my kids and he said no! Everyone would be pissed. That is not a lot of money. Look at it like it’s an investment toward their future. She does this now and down the road when he is working she can go back to school, or be a stay at home mom. It’s a relationship you take care of your partner when you love them. Everyone is acting like he is saying he needs money for drugs. It’s for his kids/family.



  • I don’t think for one moment she didn’t know that he would need this. I mean he has kids there. If he wasn’t sending money to them everyone would say he was a dead beat. Life is a lot harder there and he was essentially the man of the family and oldest so a lot of responsibility falls on him. It will not stop in the future he is here and he will make sure they do not want for things. This will be the new normal. If she wants to be with him she is going to have to accept it. On the most basic level he is providing for his family. He isn’t doing anything wrong or hurting anyone. Once he starts working it will again be his job.