Stranger Things Have Happened
Shekinah packs her bags and heads to a hotel; Kimberly and TJ each reach a breaking point; the uninvited guests wreak chaos at Brandan and Mary’s wedding; Daniele makes a new decision about her marriage to Yohan.
Show: 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way
Air date: November 27, 2023
Previous episode: Gimme a Break-Up
Next episode: Tell All Part 1
So you plan to live in a country and don’t bother learning the language so that you can get around? Absurd.
I guess if she spoke Hindi TJ might not be an asshole? Come on, you and the rest of the pack who trot out this “logic” are ignoring the bullshit that is the rest of this relationship. Look at Meisha with that yoga instructor. Any woman with half a brain knows “yeah, you won’t be happy with the people from that part of the city/country”. It goes so much deeper than language. Guess how you learn the language? Go live there with people who aren’t total assholes to you and you’ll pick it up by being immersed in it.
My comment is a separate part of the equation. I never once said that her learning Hindi would prevent TJs family from being assholes. I am merely speaking of her having some kind of autonomy while she is out there. Knowing the language would allow her to be more comfortable to get out of the house to do things. With that being said, it seems that the culture clash is too great here and no one is seeing eye to eye. TJs family does not have the skill set to be supportive to have her “integrate”. It’s their way or the highway. Kim had the same mindset so she has some decisions to make as to whether she wants to stay in that situation or not.