Truthfully, I thought she had a lot of patience especially when they were burning literal shit & sprinkling piss in the house. I think she’s a a basket case at times, but I haven’t seen her do anything that should equal this amount of hate (at least that I remember) . She was literally saying she was depressed and TJ didn’t do a single thing but gaslight her into going back to America and told her it was her own fault. His family seem insufferable & I’m sure most people on here wouldn’t be able to deal with that. Sharing a space with a brother & stepmom who are condescending and rude and demand you to do things that wasn’t planned would make me scream too.
Watching them is so hard. It’s like TEXTBOOK reactive “abuse” (Abuse in quotations because it’s not really abuse but that’s the name for it)
She’s being abused (at least emotionally/verbally) she’s depressed, she’s being gaslit and driven to the brink and so she snaps and “looks crazy” and looks like the “insane and abuse one” in the relationship just because she has a more explosive reaction. I hope most of y’all haven’t been there but I have. When you’re being abused, verbally, physically, psychologically, etc. when you’re struggling and they just keep pushing you to the absolute brink, egging you on, it’s absolutely likely you will just SNAP and start screaming and freaking out and looking unhinged, bc you basically do come unhinged honestly due to how much you’re taking from other people. It’s unbearably emotionally painful. You want to scream, break things, pull out your hair or just rip off your own skin.