Truthfully, I thought she had a lot of patience especially when they were burning literal shit & sprinkling piss in the house. I think she’s a a basket case at times, but I haven’t seen her do anything that should equal this amount of hate (at least that I remember) . She was literally saying she was depressed and TJ didn’t do a single thing but gaslight her into going back to America and told her it was her own fault. His family seem insufferable & I’m sure most people on here wouldn’t be able to deal with that. Sharing a space with a brother & stepmom who are condescending and rude and demand you to do things that wasn’t planned would make me scream too.
I went through something similar with my ex. Our cultures were very different and he had these expectations of me that were extremely difficult to live up to, yet he wouldn’t do shit to support me through the process (except doing exactly what TJ is doing like involving his terrible family or making himself the victim). I feel bad for Kim because it seems she doesn’t know how to handle all these feelings. She’s isolated and trying to cope with all the pressure