Truthfully, I thought she had a lot of patience especially when they were burning literal shit & sprinkling piss in the house. I think she’s a a basket case at times, but I haven’t seen her do anything that should equal this amount of hate (at least that I remember) . She was literally saying she was depressed and TJ didn’t do a single thing but gaslight her into going back to America and told her it was her own fault. His family seem insufferable & I’m sure most people on here wouldn’t be able to deal with that. Sharing a space with a brother & stepmom who are condescending and rude and demand you to do things that wasn’t planned would make me scream too.
I always thought it was unfair that Kimberly was expected to completely absorb his culture while essentially abandoning her own (ie. Not being able to eat foods with garlic or having involvement in planning the wedding).
I mean that should kind of be the expectation when you move to a country lol.
Yes it’s unfair to us, I am going to assume you aren’t Hindi. On the other hand Americans or people of any country can’t go to these countries that are highly culturally functioned and have been like that for years & years & expect the people to change their ways of life for them. If a person doesn’t admire the culture of the country they visit they definitely need to avoid getting into relationships with the local people. In India the population amount is staggering to the mind & they live in very steeped historical ways, as do other places in the world. It’s like Kim being angry over wanting to cook garlic which is just not acceptable in their religion and these people live with their religion; hence the cow dung.
Personally I can’t or won’t live like that but have enough common sense to avoid these types of countries. Yet, one can find asshole men & in-laws from hell in any country; you marry it you live with it or get out. I don’t mean to be harsh but just reality. I had in-laws from hell so yes I know.