Truthfully, I thought she had a lot of patience especially when they were burning literal shit & sprinkling piss in the house. I think she’s a a basket case at times, but I haven’t seen her do anything that should equal this amount of hate (at least that I remember) . She was literally saying she was depressed and TJ didn’t do a single thing but gaslight her into going back to America and told her it was her own fault. His family seem insufferable & I’m sure most people on here wouldn’t be able to deal with that. Sharing a space with a brother & stepmom who are condescending and rude and demand you to do things that wasn’t planned would make me scream too.
I agree. I don’t think this is a case of “moving to another country not knowing anything about the culture”. She lived there for a year, I think she’s probably got a handle on the basics.
It’s TJ lying to her/failing to tell her things over and over. He basically forced her to live in the family home, and then because she lives in the family home it’s being dictated to her what she can and cannot eat. It was wild. He couldn’t even be bothered to translate for her at her own fucking wedding!
Then we get a couple months into the marriage and she’s homesick (understandable) and depressed about her living situation (also understandable) and he not only shows ZERO empathy for her, he’s basically telling her to go. All while she’s saying she doesn’t want to leave, she just wants emotional support.
I’d have screamed too.