Truthfully, I thought she had a lot of patience especially when they were burning literal shit & sprinkling piss in the house. I think she’s a a basket case at times, but I haven’t seen her do anything that should equal this amount of hate (at least that I remember) . She was literally saying she was depressed and TJ didn’t do a single thing but gaslight her into going back to America and told her it was her own fault. His family seem insufferable & I’m sure most people on here wouldn’t be able to deal with that. Sharing a space with a brother & stepmom who are condescending and rude and demand you to do things that wasn’t planned would make me scream too.
I felt for her in this episode. I was her in my marriage. Yes, I needed help properly regulating my emotions, but when I tried to communicate to my husband what I needed, he would never hear me or validate my feelings. He just made it about him and he would get defensive and shut down. It literally made me insane and one night I slammed a door so loud after screaming at him. I had an anxiety attack at work the next day. I had tried therapy but didn’t like my therapist so I quit. I apologized for my behavior but I cried and cried to my husband that I needed help and didn’t know what to do. He told me he couldn’t help me, I had to figure it out.
Anyways my marriage only lasted a year. I got a new therapist whom I love and I’m learning how to regulate my emotions better as well as how to properly communicate. But I also understand now that a lot of my anxiety and behavior with my husband was because of him and who he is. He brought out the worst in me. Wish I never married him but at least I’m out of it now and moving on.
Good for you for recognizing your worth and getting out of that relationship! I hope you’re doing well now