Truthfully, I thought she had a lot of patience especially when they were burning literal shit & sprinkling piss in the house. I think she’s a a basket case at times, but I haven’t seen her do anything that should equal this amount of hate (at least that I remember) . She was literally saying she was depressed and TJ didn’t do a single thing but gaslight her into going back to America and told her it was her own fault. His family seem insufferable & I’m sure most people on here wouldn’t be able to deal with that. Sharing a space with a brother & stepmom who are condescending and rude and demand you to do things that wasn’t planned would make me scream too.
This sucks, I’m sorry. Honestly, I don’t think you even need to be in her (or your) shoes to understand what she’s going through, just be a human being with empathy. Over-involved in-laws are very difficult to deal with, I hope you have support. Kim had none, it seems.