Truthfully, I thought she had a lot of patience especially when they were burning literal shit & sprinkling piss in the house. I think she’s a a basket case at times, but I haven’t seen her do anything that should equal this amount of hate (at least that I remember) . She was literally saying she was depressed and TJ didn’t do a single thing but gaslight her into going back to America and told her it was her own fault. His family seem insufferable & I’m sure most people on here wouldn’t be able to deal with that. Sharing a space with a brother & stepmom who are condescending and rude and demand you to do things that wasn’t planned would make me scream too.
3 months of her hiding out from his family, not trying to assimilate and blaming him for that most likely in the same manner and he’s not really feeling like hugging you is not surprising. She clearly has moved passed the omission of her wifely duties and that isn’t the issue. She’s bored. She doesn’t want to try with the family. All the planning, wedding planning, TV show she got caught up in and then reality set in.
She can sit with them all day and the brother would have to translate all conversations, it would be awkward for all. I wouldn’t eat anything from that womans kitchen either, she’s gross.
So sitting in your room all day alone for 3 months while not even attempting and blaming your spouse for your decisions isn’t…awkward? If the brother and mother don’t have an issue with translating why is that an issue?
Gross or not it’s cultural and she’s fully aware that she’s not in America and should know that some things we find gross they would probably find gross about us. She needs to get over it or help clean. Do something. Some revere cows while we slaughter them. Some eat dogs and cats where we have them as pets. Acclimate. She chose to move to another country and marry a man with different beliefs and a different culture. Her choice. Grow up or go home but playing victim and blaming her husband for her choices have gotten her no where. No brainer.