I’ve seen a lot of conversations about Kimberly and everything that she and TJ are going through/have gone through. But what I’m not understanding is, what was Kimberly’s end goal?

She has been to India before, seen the culture, and she knew she was going to be living in the same house as TJ’s family.

Yes, TJ should’ve been more communicative and clear about what her role was going to be, then let her decide on the fate of their relationship.

I understand that she wants to have her voice heard, but I’m not exactly sure what the end goal was? then let her decide on the fate of their relationship.

Was she expecting to magically just get along with his family?

Was she expecting to not do anything around the house and just be provided for?

Was she expecting TJ just to randomly say that they can move out and not be living with his family anymore?

Or were there other expectations that maybe we just didn’t see on camera?

Either way, I’m just not sure what her expectations and goals were when she decided to move to India with TJ’s family.

  • peepeehalpert_@alien.topBEnglish
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    10 months ago

    She was fine with doing housework for her and TJ just not for his whole family. I’m sorry, but I’d stay locked upstairs too if my brother in law who called me stupid and his mother were always downstairs, especially if they were lighting cow shit on fire in the house and spraying cow piss everywhere.

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    He completely withheld what was expected of her.

      • peepeehalpert_@alien.topBEnglish
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        10 months ago

        Looks like that’s a false claim

        Mascara contains the crystalline form of guanine, a word that derives from the Spanish word guano, meaning “dung.” Guanine is used extensively in the cosmetics industry, where it functions as a colorant and as an opacifying (shimmering or light diffusing) agent. It’s found in bath products, cleansing products, fragrances, hair conditioners, lipsticks, nail products, shampoos and skin care products. The crystalline guanine used in beauty products doesn’t derive from excrement, though, either from bats or from any other critter. Yet there is a bit of a “yuck!” factor to that ingredient, as guanine is manufactured from fish scales, which means you’re likely finding a little bit of Nemo in your cosmetics drawer.

        Even if it was, it’s a cosmetic grade ingredient that’s tested and is not the same as lighting cow shit on fire in your house.

      • LucyLouLah@alien.topBEnglish
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        10 months ago

        That’s fine. Doesn’t mean we’re okay with our house smelling like cow manure and the cow manure being on our kitchen table!