I’ve seen a lot of conversations about Kimberly and everything that she and TJ are going through/have gone through. But what I’m not understanding is, what was Kimberly’s end goal?

She has been to India before, seen the culture, and she knew she was going to be living in the same house as TJ’s family.

Yes, TJ should’ve been more communicative and clear about what her role was going to be, then let her decide on the fate of their relationship.

I understand that she wants to have her voice heard, but I’m not exactly sure what the end goal was? then let her decide on the fate of their relationship.

Was she expecting to magically just get along with his family?

Was she expecting to not do anything around the house and just be provided for?

Was she expecting TJ just to randomly say that they can move out and not be living with his family anymore?

Or were there other expectations that maybe we just didn’t see on camera?

Either way, I’m just not sure what her expectations and goals were when she decided to move to India with TJ’s family.

  • Every_inu_heart@alien.topBEnglish
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    1 year ago

    I feel like honestly TJ is the problem. Sure she knew what she was getting into by moving to a India, but I highly doubt she expected to get married to a man who bad mouths her to his family whenever they fight, lies about his expectations when she’s asked, and has to deal with a family that will never be happy with anything she does even down to her clothing choices.

    • Newuser3213@alien.topBEnglish
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      1 year ago

      I love india and the people but from my experience being ftiends with some, he’s pretty typical in terms of the gossiping and being a brick wall emotionally. Plus they treat each other so pathetically due to the social structure, to me it was like Kim had a huge wake up call and smelled the chai

      • BeAnScReAm666@alien.topBEnglish
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        1 year ago

        Totally. I don’t have a problem with India’s cultures. I find it to be very beautiful. But knowing that I am an American and grew up as an American and have certain views and expectations. Just like them. There will be things that I can’t waiver on because it’s an inherent part of who I am. Personally I would’ve never done this. if there was more room to understanding each other’s culture, maybe it could’ve worked. But I think that’s the folly of man. It’s one of the biggest problems in the world is not being able to understand others background and to just shake hands and say “you’re this way and I’m this way and let it be just that.” Sadly is human nature to want to impose your own perspective and views onto others, and that goes both ways in this circumstance.