I’ve seen a lot of conversations about Kimberly and everything that she and TJ are going through/have gone through. But what I’m not understanding is, what was Kimberly’s end goal?

She has been to India before, seen the culture, and she knew she was going to be living in the same house as TJ’s family.

Yes, TJ should’ve been more communicative and clear about what her role was going to be, then let her decide on the fate of their relationship.

I understand that she wants to have her voice heard, but I’m not exactly sure what the end goal was? then let her decide on the fate of their relationship.

Was she expecting to magically just get along with his family?

Was she expecting to not do anything around the house and just be provided for?

Was she expecting TJ just to randomly say that they can move out and not be living with his family anymore?

Or were there other expectations that maybe we just didn’t see on camera?

Either way, I’m just not sure what her expectations and goals were when she decided to move to India with TJ’s family.

  • buttsandsloths@alien.topBEnglish
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    1 year ago

    I think there was a lot of hope on her part and probably some level of assumption that it would work out- I also think that TJ didn’t think ahead and just assumed she’d go along with it.

    I am not 100% sure still on why she seemed so detached from living after being married versus when she was there for a year; I’ve read some articles and linked one in live thread about how conservative families and in the more rural parts of India after marriage you’re expected to stay home more and not really socialize- it could be since they’re more conservative that the expectation was she would be home a lot??? Not sure- either way it was really sad they spent so much time and resources to be culturally amiss.