I’ve seen a lot of conversations about Kimberly and everything that she and TJ are going through/have gone through. But what I’m not understanding is, what was Kimberly’s end goal?

She has been to India before, seen the culture, and she knew she was going to be living in the same house as TJ’s family.

Yes, TJ should’ve been more communicative and clear about what her role was going to be, then let her decide on the fate of their relationship.

I understand that she wants to have her voice heard, but I’m not exactly sure what the end goal was? then let her decide on the fate of their relationship.

Was she expecting to magically just get along with his family?

Was she expecting to not do anything around the house and just be provided for?

Was she expecting TJ just to randomly say that they can move out and not be living with his family anymore?

Or were there other expectations that maybe we just didn’t see on camera?

Either way, I’m just not sure what her expectations and goals were when she decided to move to India with TJ’s family.

  • Individual-Hunt9547@alien.topB
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    1 year ago

    I am so confused with everyone saying TJ is the problem. I get it, he hasn’t fully communicated her responsibilities. HOWEVER, there’s no way she spent a year in India previously and didn’t get some idea of how things would be. Seems like the norm that families stay together in one home over there. I think she wants him and his family to meet her halfway with her American culture and it’s just not going to happen. These are religious Hindu people, they aren’t gonna change it up to accommodate an American. From the moment we met her it’s been nothing but complaints. I don’t blame TJ for being distant. If I met a guy and the condition of us being together was that we’d have to live under the same roof as the rest of the family, that would be a deal breaker for me. I’m too ‘Americanized’. So is she. Her endgame is an absolute mystery.