Honestly - if my husband: -lied to my about my role in the marriage until immediately after the marriage -let his family ice me out -completely disregards my feelings -disregards the fact that I am depressed & tells me it’s a personal problem -gaslight the shit out of me every time I tried to talk about my feelings
I would probably scream too. I hear ya Kimberly! I’m starting to feel manic for her
Yeah. I know Kimberly catches flack and people tell her she didn’t “do her research” but living there for a year would most certainly be more eye opening than Google, ffs. Not to mention, TJ married her under false pretenses. He assured her she wouldn’t be expected to be a traditional Indian wife and pulled a bait and switch.
I felt so bad for her when she was begging TJ for help. There is nothing worse than begging your spouse for some support and they basically tell you to fuck off. Once, I begged my ex husband to help me when I was in the middle of a panic attack. My face was going numb and I was so stressed over working 15 hours a day and was exhausted. I asked him just to take responsibility for his own dinner for a few days and drive himself to work until the overtime was done. He literally laughed in my face while I was in the middle of a break down. Seeing TJ be so dismissive was so triggering for me. I know Kimberly isn’t perfect, I know she is weird, I know she shouldn’t have married TJ. But, the way he treated her was cruel.