Honestly - if my husband: -lied to my about my role in the marriage until immediately after the marriage -let his family ice me out -completely disregards my feelings -disregards the fact that I am depressed & tells me it’s a personal problem -gaslight the shit out of me every time I tried to talk about my feelings

I would probably scream too. I hear ya Kimberly! I’m starting to feel manic for her

  • Negative-Beyond204@alien.topBEnglish
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    10 months ago

    Because people, no matter whether they are a man or a woman, like to nitpick on ANY part of a female’s personality that they don’t agree with. The men are misogynists and the other women want to “be chosen” by these misogynistic men so they will agree with them left and right without knowing the full context of the situation. They think, “Woman bad! She’s crazy!” or anything along those lines. If it was a different reality show with a different couple, people will ALWAYS make fun of the woman first.

    • ek8ti@alien.topBEnglish
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      10 months ago

      Agreed. Was thinking along similar lines… a lot of women are very quick to attack or criticize other women.

      • Negative-Beyond204@alien.topBEnglish
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        10 months ago

        And it’s absolutely insane. What’s worse is that a lot of them don’t even REALIZE they are doing it - because it’s so normal just to attack women for being themselves and not doing what misogynistic men want. This is how awfully women are still treated in 2023. Just fucking depressing. And we’re the only people who can stand up and stop this treatment - but most of us just continue to go along with it…

      • Educational-Fly3642@alien.topBEnglish
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        10 months ago

        Right….because women need to support other women even if they are crazy, immature, make terrible decisions and generally act like a loon? Just because it’s another woman? They can both be idiots…she isn’t blameless