Honestly - if my husband: -lied to my about my role in the marriage until immediately after the marriage -let his family ice me out -completely disregards my feelings -disregards the fact that I am depressed & tells me it’s a personal problem -gaslight the shit out of me every time I tried to talk about my feelings
I would probably scream too. I hear ya Kimberly! I’m starting to feel manic for her
Surely she knew the importance of family in the Indian culture, it’s not that different than most cultures in that regard. If she was already beefing with family before the wedding I’m not sure why she would expect things to get better.
I empathize with her frustration but was she really that blindsided? Or that narcissistic to believe she would go to India and change how his entire family operates and alter their beliefs and traditions?
It just sounds bizarre and crazy to have NOT seen this coming