Kalani keeps saying Asuelu cheated 12 times, but she also alluded to his ‘cheating’ in America as online chats with cam-girls? She makes it sound like he physically cheated 12 separate times. What’s the real story here? I know chatting with girls could be considered cheating…but I feel like she’s intentionally making it sound like it was ‘physical’ cheating, to justify her own behaviour. Thoughts?

  • ExpensiveSolid8990@alien.topBEnglish
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    11 months ago

    What do you mean downplay? What he did is plenty horrible. He continuously treated her like shit for all those years and the only way he realized how awful it feels to get cheated on was for Kalani to give him a taste of his own medicine. I don’t agree with her actions but they’re on a therapy show where they are there to share their stories. Asuelu is still on this show texting other women while he’s supposedly finally “invested” in saving their marriage and continues to try hiding it. Kalani isn’t worse than Asuelu. They both suck!

    • jayzepps@alien.topBEnglish
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      11 months ago

      We don’t know that he was actually deleting messages from girls. I thought it could be messages from the guys about plans to go to the strip club. Also, ppl cheating (kalani) often get paranoid and make baseless accusations. They both suck equally

      • ExpensiveSolid8990@alien.topBEnglish
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        11 months ago

        You have a good point. We really don’t know what the truth is except that they are both lying to one another by hiding things. Either way it doesn’t help his case about him trying to look like he’s the one who truly cares to save his marriage this time.