Kalani keeps saying Asuelu cheated 12 times, but she also alluded to his ‘cheating’ in America as online chats with cam-girls? She makes it sound like he physically cheated 12 separate times. What’s the real story here? I know chatting with girls could be considered cheating…but I feel like she’s intentionally making it sound like it was ‘physical’ cheating, to justify her own behaviour. Thoughts?

  • Ok_Interview_2325@alien.topB
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    1 year ago

    The first definition is a different use of the word than the one we’re talking about. That context refers to cheating like in a game of monopoly. I’m sure you know this.

    The second definition doesn’t apply either. Asuelo wasn’t sexually unfaithful either. They’re strippers not prostitutes.

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      1 year ago

      But that’s your definition of unfaithful, not necessarily Kalani’s or Asuelo’s. I personally don’t think watching porn or strippers is cheating, but in a relationship where people view that as unfaithful, it would be. Some people don’t view messaging people outside the relationship in intimate ways as being unfaithful, some people do. My point is that there isn’t one specific thing that comprises unfaithful/cheating behavior.