I believe couples should share responsibility and do so equally. What you have here are two immature people who had no business getting together or having children who are stuck in a bad relationship and situation. He doesn’t want to face reality his life is crap and he made a mistake so he escapes by playing games. She hates he’s irresponsible and lazy. Instead of having a conversation and expressing what they’re feeling, he ignores her, she probably goes after him making him react, they fight, then she grabs the camera and starts talking about what he did to her without talking about her role in the argument. She’s trying to prove he’s awful and abusive by detailing what he did but it’s clearly one sided. Notice how she’s crying, well fake force crying, and looking down reading the messages people are writing lol. She’s a piece of shit and a narcissist. He needs to run as fast as he can and support his kids and ask for equal custody. The problem is where does he run to? Back to the US? He certainly shouldn’t leave the house he paid for but kicking her out means his kids will be out too. This is a mess that’s going to end in tragedy.