That’s what people do here too they work really hard and save up for a down payment for a home except they don’t get to live rent free so it takes them a lot longer and they have to work a lot harder and once they get their house they have to keep working they don’t just chill and play video games while they have a baby on the way.
I get he might be depressed and not knowing the language is hard but there’s no reason as to why he shouldn’t be trying to help with the farm or to cook or help clean or something. Honestly, both seem relatively lazy. They’re always asking for money online. And she’s seemingly still trying to make it big on TikTok. Either he needs to be more hands on so she can go back to school or he needs to figure out how to market himself locally to try to earn some form of income for their family. Either way, arguing about deciding between buying a newer phone or a video game, isn’t a good look when they constantly have a hand out, asking strangers for money.