That’s what people do here too they work really hard and save up for a down payment for a home except they don’t get to live rent free so it takes them a lot longer and they have to work a lot harder and once they get their house they have to keep working they don’t just chill and play video games while they have a baby on the way.
He needs to be a citizen or permanent resident or something in order to get a job, isn’t that correct? Yes in the meantime learn the language and FFS wash a dish or two, maybe learn a skill for when the time comes and he can legally go out and earn money.
I moved to a new town to live with my boyfriend in April, and I took about three weeks off between jobs. We’re pretty set financially, so that time I spent every day cleaning, doing laundry, cooking, fixing things around the house, caring for our animals, and hiking every day. I wasn’t working, but I did absolutely everything I could around the house because I wanted to contribute in every way I could. I wonder if Brandon is depressed or something, because doing nothing all day isn’t normal or healthy behavior
It definitely wreaks of depression. When my depression gets really bad I would go into “shut down mode”. I did the absolute bare minimum to keep myself alive and just did mind numbing shit like scrolling through YouTube.I couldn’t get myself to do anything else even though I knew I really wanted to, it was like my body wouldn’t work with my mind.