So I (32m) finally traveled to meet my fiance (50f) to another country to spend time with her after 9 months without any physical contact. As soon as I got to her place, I asked if she wanted to shower me, but refused. I’m starting to get irritated because I’m tryna get some sloppy toppy but she brushes me off. We go to the park for a nice day out and I keep looking for her to hold my hand or lick ice cream off my face like a dog, anything to show that she cares because she didn’t just open her home to me or anything. Again, she’s refusing to show any sign of sexual interest. I need to know how good her head is.
After she insisted on spending quality time with me in the park but refusing to give up her tight wet box, I finally decided to issue her an ultimatum. Either she literally decides to get down and dirty on my 2.75" punisher, or I literally leave and never speak to her again. I think my partner owes me at least a quickie, but she’s looking at me like I’m an asshole (while refusing to give up hers). AITA here?
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This is a joke right?
I think you’re joking but if not….
You haven’t been with your SO for 9 months. You see them for the first time in a long time and right away you’re asking for “sloppy toppy”. Your SO is not a sex doll. Maybe they wanted to just spend time with you before you had a romantic night together!? Maybe they felt uncomfortable because you haven’t been together for a long time and they were nervous/shy?
She won’t lick the ice cream off your face? This is definitely a sign of future problems.
Here’s my expert opinion…don’t leave her. Just keep harassing, complaining, even threaten to leave in 48 hours (but definitely don’t leave) unless she gives into your physical needs. Maybe even hire a film crew and talk to the producers like they’re your friends and complain some more. Don’t find any self-respect, just keep whining about the current problem in your relationship and just believe it gets better after you get married.