Ouuuf how do we feel about this ladies and gents. He said he doesn’t think it was stealing because of hey are married and yet he tried to hide it from her. He says he took about 2000 pesos (anout $110 USD) im just wondering what he needs the money for or what he spent it on. What do you think? Was he wrong ? Do you think it’s okay?

  • MangoSmooothie@alien.topB
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    11 months ago

    It was wrong of him to take the money without asking here and then lying about it BUT Danielle has such a weird attitude around their finances. She always says “my money” which is not right for a married couple, imo. My wife and I share everything. If either of us are making a big purchase, we talk to each other, but it’s our money, not mine, not hers.

    What I hate most about Danielle is how she acts like she’s such a fiscally responsible person. Uhhh, didn’t you rack up 100k worth of toll road tickets and you basically had to leave the USA because you are fucking bankrupt? Idiot.

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      11 months ago

      It’s likely “ your money” because you both either work and are contributing fairly equally or one is home with kids by mutual agreement. I have real problems with one spouse making substantially less unless there are kids, and feeling like they’re entitled to take money from the spouse who makes more without asking.

      My brothers wife refused to work despite having a degree and no kids. She was a hoarder and slob, their house had mice and roaches. He stayed with her 14 years before divorcing and she got 7 years of significant spousal support. It was the most unfair thing I’d ever seen.