According to both of them, she’s been like this for three months. I highly suspect he has tried to offer her emotional support, but we’ve seen where she absolutely goes berserk and nothing pleases her remember what she did about the house. I think he’s just tried everything and he’s at the end of a rope. He actually said that.

It seems that the edit about him not telling her what was expected of her was only partially true as it seems she knew there were expectations she would help his mom. Taj may not have told her everything and obviously he was wrong about that as it’s contributing to her stress and histrionics and his families frustration however, she knew a few days after the wedding and if it was impossible for her to fulfill those expectations, she should have told Taj. That she basically holed up in the apartment for 3 months waiting for him to say ok, you don’t have to help or get along with my family and I’ll cut my hours at work so I can squire you around town as your interpreter was not remotely rational. Also considering she deemed herself depressed I would assume she had a therapist in the states she could call for help and if not, plenty of online counselors/ doctors. Sad to see a young woman be in such a state and not take any steps to help herself.

Kim needs to get professional help. Her self imposed boundaries and inability to compromise or get along with most everyone are not things she can work on herself and get better. She needs to learn why she behaves the way she does and how she needs to change in order to have healthy relationships.

If this is what he’s been dealing with daily for 3 months I can understand him just wanting the chaos to be over.

It’s because Nikki’s face is all sharp angles and harsh looking. Unfortunately, in her quest to have higher cheekbones and a chiseled nose for photo ops/ makeup options all the Botox, fillers and PS she got to initially feminize her face has made it more masculine. His mother on the other hand has a face with round edges that makes her look younger overall even though she has more wrinkles and sagging compared to Nikki.

We all spend money on shit far less valuable then helping a young person out of abject poverty. She’s only asking for a laptop that can be gotten for $ 200. Women should help women.

It’s likely “ your money” because you both either work and are contributing fairly equally or one is home with kids by mutual agreement. I have real problems with one spouse making substantially less unless there are kids, and feeling like they’re entitled to take money from the spouse who makes more without asking.

My brothers wife refused to work despite having a degree and no kids. She was a hoarder and slob, their house had mice and roaches. He stayed with her 14 years before divorcing and she got 7 years of significant spousal support. It was the most unfair thing I’d ever seen.

Asuelo was the first to cheat. IMO that makes her “ cheating” a moot point as he broke faith first and destroyed trust. Where she did wrong was promising him she blocked the other guy and was giving 100% to fixing her marriage then looked for any reason” he was deleting texts” to unblock her guy and sleep with him.

If I saw my spouse deleting texts and this was not something he did on the regular I’d say hand me your phone now. If he refused or I saw anything suspicious then it’s “ ok I was giving it 100% but now you’ve broken my trust again so I’m calling … because we’re done.

That’s a starting base salary. They’re making at least double what hat I’m sure as it’s their 3rd season.

I think it should be a wake up call for many dating couples in their 20-30s because many spend much of their free time at clubs, bars, parties in other words , drinking. If along with drinking at outside venues once or twice a week if your partner is drinking at home daily, binge drinking frequently to excess or drinking in the morning at the very least they’re a problem drinker. This is true even if they hold down a good job as it’s a misconception and frequent excuse of alcoholics and problem drinker that if they had a problem they couldn’t hold their job.

If this is your situation, before you get married or live together, have a talk about this when they’re sober. Access screening questions from AA or other sources and discuss them. Those without alcohol addiction can pretty easily give up or moderate the party lifestyle but those with issues, can’t for any length of time.

Like Yara, it’s very easy to convince yourself “ they’ll grow up” with marriage or a child but instead you end up worrying about DUIs, have an absent partner several nights a week because they’re getting drunk at the bar and you’ll end up in daily fights which your kids will suffer with.