Bojacks a murderer. Obviously, the murderer is a worse person. If you don’t want to count Sarah Lynn, you can change that to attempted murderer. All of Eleanor bad things were way less dramatic than bojacks.

Who suffered more is hard to tell since you really don’t see much of Eleanors childhood. But from what we know, eleanors parents seemed moreso neglectful whereas bojacks parents actively hated him. So he most likely suffered more. He definitely suffers more as an adult.

Uh, we do not all relate to boajck here. Might be a sign that you need to work on yourself. I personally just found it cringe. Understandable cringe, but still cringe.