I see a lot of people in the post making the same mistakes. Insecurity about looks can come from many places, but a lot of times, insecurities about looks can absolutely come from people telling them that they are beautiful growing up, so much so that they’ve attached their self-worth to their beauty. This is also why you see a lot of very pretty girls with obsession to plastic surgeries, because they’ve been told that they are beautiful growing up as their core identity. Now I’m not saying you shouldn’t tell your sons and daughters that they are beautiful, but compliments have to be meaningful in a way that rewards something they did instead of something innate, such as hard working, loyal, honesty…etc.

Completely agree. He’s treats meisha like a nuisance when she cries and super disrespectful towards Jeymi and Kris because they were lesbians. Others are just awkward, weird ,and immature but Nicola is the worst out of the 4 for me.