Sounds like you want to hate him but can’t find the exact reason why, so truth be damned and go with what your feeling.

To be fair, they were in the middle of an argument when she she started touching him. I don’t know about assault, but if you’re in the middle of an argument with your spouse, touching them in a way they dont like will not produce a positive reaction and may escalate the problem.

Maybe I’m corny but I believe Love can transcend language. Memphis even thought so while being in the relationship. It just ultimately didn’t manifest but that doesn’t mean it is impossible. I’ve dated women who speak English poorly, never been an issue