Bilal Is so toxic with Shaeeda he does not know how to loosen himself up, He pulled over because she was being playful with him in the car and told her she could take an uber ? On top of not even introducing her within his community and being so dismissive of her and talking down to her as a child ? It’s so disturbing to watch. He seems like one of those losers who believe they are “high value” men, But he is so arrogant I feel like he love bombed Shaeeda cause no way. I would of asked for a plane back home not an uber on god.

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    11 months ago

    Been watching them in season 7 of Happily Ever After… He’s so much worse. He continues to disregard anything she wants (and what they agreed to), yet she constantly makes sacrifices for him. She is always the one apologizing. He told her to not allow anyone to have influence over her behavior, yet he acts like a total unjustifiable a**hole whenever he meets her best friend in NY. She deserves SO much better than this gaslighting excuse of a man.

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    1 year ago

    He tries to mange her like it’s a business transaction and when he tries to be accommodating or nice, he sounds like a wolf in sheep’s clothing.

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    1 year ago

    Not physically abusive but definitely abusive in the sense he tries to use intellect and logic as weapons lol

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    1 year ago

    Yes! He is HIGHLY controlling, abusive and narcissistic. He thinks he’s the best, talks bad about others but not himself, wait till you see what he does later in the season, especially on some dates and saying “I don’t even want to take you out right now” it’s just very blaming, like you’re the problem, not me. Also I’ll say this just to hurt you.

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    1 year ago

    Patrick had him sized up perfectly at the tell-all. Bilal is a salesman and everything he says, he says in the context of selling it to you. Patrick was spot on right about him.

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    1 year ago

    There were a lot of people here who were on his side because how dare she hit him, that’s assault! It was insane.

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      1 year ago

      To be fair, they were in the middle of an argument when she she started touching him. I don’t know about assault, but if you’re in the middle of an argument with your spouse, touching them in a way they dont like will not produce a positive reaction and may escalate the problem.

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    1 year ago

    Anyone else think he’s a total phony? The house, the car. So fake. What’s that saying about lipstick?

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    1 year ago

    He is so high and mighty and fake I can’t stand him. Isn’t his whole thing a load of bs? Like the house he supposedly lives in is just like some staged model home?

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      1 year ago

      Sounds like you want to hate him but can’t find the exact reason why, so truth be damned and go with what your feeling.

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        1 year ago

        OK, he belittles, demeans, and controls her. If she disagrees with him he tries to rule with an iron fist. Everything he does is great but if she even slightly disagrees or wants something else he bullies her into doing what he wants. But yeah I can’t find the exact reason why.

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    1 year ago

    He creeped me out from the time he showed her his fake house to test her. How is fake catfishing someone a good test? He’s just awful in that “he doesn’t hit me but…” way