Igor is not transphobic. He was traumatized by a trans person who utterly betrayed his trust, so now he’s having a hard time getting past that trauma. He was in a sexual relationship that required his consent and knowledge of the fact that the person he was having sex with is trans. He was not given the opportunity to give informed consent, which to me is another form of sexual assault. Her expecting him to have any enthusiasm about engaging sexually with his assailant/the person who sexually traumatized him is beyond bonkers. This ain’t a soap opera, they ain’t Luke and Laura, and people don’t tend to fall in love with the person who sexually traumatized them. Igor is doing his best to get beyond the trauma, but it doesn’t seem to be working. I’d give him credit for trying, but I’m still uncertain of his motives, so I’ll hold off on that unless/until he shows some genuine emotional connection to her. But if he can’t, Nikki has nobody but herself to blame. She weaponized being trans to devastate him during a spat. I just don’t see how they get past that.
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Gay. 100% and Karen is his beard. My theory is that she married him not realizing he was gay and has been bitter and suspicious of men ever since.
Impeachykeene@alien.topBto90 Day Fiance•Am I missing something or did he literally leave his child? Is this the definition of gaslighting?English1·2 years agoYeah. I don’t think caveman Grog understands his own irony there.
Impeachykeene@alien.topBto90 Day Fiance•Sarper. Babies are not neopets. You can’t just delete the email and they go away.English1·2 years agoRight. And his son isn’t “missing.” He’s just wise enough to not want to find or have a relationship with his father.
Impeachykeene@alien.topBto90 Day Fiance•Do you think you’d like Angela if she didn’t have anger issues?English1·2 years agoNope. I hated Angela from minute one. There’s a certain kind of person who worships Trump: garbage people & bullies. Angela was obnoxious from the start. Pushy, aggressive, overly sexual, cackled at all her own unfunny comments and acting like Michael was her possession. When I heard that she calls him the n-word during arguments, that was it. She has reached the point of being unredeemable.
Impeachykeene@alien.topBto90 Day Fiance•My fiancé changed my Lock Screen to AngelaEnglish1·2 years agoI don’t know whether that’s hilarious or abuse. LOL
Why can’t she sit still?
Impeachykeene@alien.topBto90 Day Fiance•Senator John Fetterman and his wife Giselle dressed up as Gino and Jasmine for Halloween!English1·2 years agoOkay I knew I liked him but now I love him
Stripporette. He’s trying to quit strippers but that patch isn’t strong enough
Impeachykeene@alien.topBto90 Day Fiance•Not a huge fan of Sarper, but Shariyah suuuuuucksEnglish1·2 years agoCounterpoint: She smells a rat and is trying to prevent her sister from marrying that loser. Mind you, SHE didn’t ask to see his DMs; she asked if he’d let Shekinah see them. And his treatment of her was deplorable. “You’re cute, but you talk too much” is such a demeaning thing to say to a woman. It’s basically saying all of her value is in her looks, but she loses value in his estimation when she dares to ask him some salient questions he doesn’t want to answer.
I don’t particularly care for Shariyah or Shekinah, but I’m entirely repulsed by Sarper.
Impeachykeene@alien.topBto90 Day Fiance•What "disgusting" thing did Daniele find out about Yohan? Wrong answers only.English1·2 years agoIt’s his OF. After Danielle tanked his butcher business, but made such a point of telling the world that Yohan is packin’ something the size of a baby’s arm in his pants, Yohan has been making ends meet by swingin’ that elephant trunk for ladies online. (Yikes, that may be too close to the actual truth)
Impeachykeene@alien.topBto90 Day Fiance•Gino and Jasmine's different spending habitsEnglish1·2 years agoI’m waiting for the conversation/screaming about how she now expects another $10k for a wedding dress, but Gino doesn’t have it to give her, or refuses to because he already gave her $10k for a wedding dress, but she spent the money on something else that was completely unnecessary.
I used to work with a girl who said “BRB” and articulated “Hashtag _____.”
She was tedious.