I wonder if his lies about expectations would be enough to get a marriage annulled in the US. It certainly should be. I have no idea how difficult it is to end a marriage in India, but I’m assuming it’s harder to split up in a culture seems to revere marriage a great deal more than ours does.

She is in the early stages of an abusive relationship with someone who is at least behaving exactly like a narcissist. He is lovebombing her every time she makes up her mind to leave in between the bouts of abuse and disrespect. That’s what the romantic hotel night is for and that’s what motivated him to do that dance, it just didn’t work. Intermittent reinforcement makes our happy “in love” hormones skyrocket way more than consistent positive relationships and actually make us addicted to those hormones and the abusive partner who causes them by contrasting increasingly abusive behavior with increasingly rare bouts of lovebombing.

I’d argue that the vast majority of people think they’re nice, or at least pretty great.

“When you see the world through rose colored glasses, all those red flags just look like flags.” -Bojack Horseman

“When you see the world through rose colored glasses, all those red flags just look like flags.” -Bojack Horseman

Look into narcissistic abuse and it’ll open your eyes and protect you from being treated that way.

There’s no moralizing narrator on this show until the Tell All so how would they acknowledge it? They’re exposing it by showing it.

“If I don’t have kids, I’d probably just stay a player.”

He let it slip that the only reason he’d want a relationship is to procreate and make her raise em.

Even one of the most aspirational celebrity couples has kids?! Why not us?! /s

In that there’s a link between crime and income as well as a link between income and lack of bathrooms, yes.

My brother is a teacher in Alameda USD. It is really nice.

Yeah, I know. I’m from Oakland as well. I’ve lived in NYC and DC as an adult, but came back to hang out with my nieces and nephew while they grow up, but it’s a steep price to pay.

Also she knows America is a rich country that has bathrooms. The way he’s trying to bulldoze gaslight her into living in this nonreality is disturbing.

I live in Oakland too, so I looked up Inglewood vs. Oakland crime rates during last week’s episode and was surprised to see how much worse Oakland’s stats, at least in 2006, where google led me.

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“It’s just a *random* page I follow that posts *random* memes like this sexualized Dora the Explorer in booty shorts.”

She was definitely asking about an apartment, but then he pulled up the most expensive real estate around to shame her about wanting a living space with a bathroom knowing full well she had brought up apartments.