He didn’t even act like he wanted kids at first. He was indifferent and non committal about it. “I dunno. Maybe. One day…”. Then he lost his shit when she said she didn’t want to be pregnant. She unknowingly stripped control away from a narcissist and he was super pissed about it.
Rob acts like he’s preparing her for “the real world” with his triflin’ bs and admonished her for coming from a wealthy family, but then tried to encourage her to ask her family for money.
He acted indifferent to the idea of having children, but then when she unknowingly took any control he had away from him by making a hard stance about not wanting to be pregnant, he was angry. It’s like he was planning on her wanting kids and he would use his non committal indifference to lead her along and exert control over her.
Nobody wants to live like that and have to use the bathroom outside in an outhouse. His place is a dump. While probably fine for a single guy, it’s definitely not when you have to consider someone else. If keeping his place nice isn’t important to him, then he needs to be like “Hey babe, I know my apartment is rough and while unfortunately we can’t move for a little while, I 100% welcome any ideas or anything you want to do to spruce it up and add your own personality here to feel more at home. I’ll help any way I can!”. Ya know, send the signal that maybe you’re not a giant piece of shit narcissist and you actually care about her being comfortable so far away from home.
She is too good for him. Absolutely too smart for him. He runs away to pout way too often.
4.5. I don’t know how they knew each other as long as they did and never talked about the child situation. They even lived together before. Just about every adult relationship I’ve been in we hash that out in the first time talking. There were a couple other things that I was like really? You don’t know that about each other already? She said they talked on the phone for up to10 hours sometimes. Wtf were they talking about all that time?
She wanted him to lick ice cream off her face and was pissed when he wouldn’t. First, gross. Second, why would she pressure him to do something like that in public? Have you admit that it was funny watching her confused face with ice cream on it looking for something to wipe it off. It was also funny when he told her she looked like a trans porn star.